Baby Greg has been up and down the past few days. He rarely has two good shifts in a row, but he's starting to gain weight and his breathing is markedly improved when he's able to tolerate being off the CPAP. (A photo of which I have included just so my esteemed PICU colleagues can laugh at my creation; it might not be pretty, but it gives him PEEP!) His g-tube isn't leaking like it used to, and we're working on getting him a different one from the States. He needed a transfusion yesterday; the charge nurse jumped at the chance, left the ward to donate and then came back to finish her work just feet away from where Greg was receiving her blood. The ship has taken Baby Greg under their collective wing, praying for him non-stop, twenty-four hours a day. All these little details and myriad more swirl and mix and have become second nature to me; reciting them comes as easy as breathing.Phil came to visit the ward last night and hung out with Baby Greg for a little while. I was talking about it all with him over cinnamon toast at some point during the shift (which has stretched on so long I've absolutely lost all concept of time). Ever pragmatic, he just patted me on the back and told me not to worry. I can see why you're attached to him. It makes sense when he looks at you like he does. But just keep serving. You'll find your inspiration again.
Right now, I have to smile. Because it just happened. He's had a good night, honestly. He's slept comfortably most of the time, only thrown up once and never had the panicked look of a baby who can't get enough air. (That look breaks my heart every single time he brings it out.) About an hour ago, he decided to wake up and be angry. I changed him and patted his back and snuggled him on his side and did all the things he usually likes. No dice. So I climbed into his bed and pulled him into my arms. Whereupon he put on little hand on my chest and immediately fell asleep. And I was left there in the dark, my heart a puddle in my chest.
I'm in Africa in the first place because God told me to pour out my soul. To kick over my heart and let everything spill out. I remember talking about this with my youth group girls last year. We all came to the conclusion that we should go to bed every night absolutely empty, completely poured out on the world and relying on God to fill us up again for the next day. I'm wondering whether or not this is the first time I've really managed to do it.
